Dancing through the Storm

This is the story of Barbara’s journey with her mother through her mother’s battle with Alzheimer’s. While it is a devastating and debilitating disease, they found moments of joy and laughter along the way. It also tells the story of Barbara’s journey from childhood family dysfunction to forgiveness. Both journeys converge when Barbara and her three sisters unite as adults to give their mother loving care during the final years of her life. Barbara’s love of dance weaves in and out of both journeys, culminating in a surprising interaction between Barbara and her mother during her mother’s advanced stage of Alzheimer’s.

Barbara Rudnicki is retired after teaching high school English for 40 years. Now, she works part-time at Danson Feet Dance Studio, where she clogs once a week with fun women of all ages. For over 25 years, she has enjoyed summer trips exploring Minnesota with a group of teacher friends and finds that no matter how small the town, it always has fun surprises. She loves spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. While this is Barbara’s first adventure in publishing, she has read her work at places such as The Loft, Patrick’s Cabaret, and the Blue Moon Café.

Barbara Rudnicki’s DancingThroughtheStorm is a memoir about a woman who forgets and the women around her-her daughters-who refuse to forget. The slow, then quick, then slow presentation of Barb’s mother’s descent into Alzheimer’s disease is carefully woven into DancingThroughtheStorm, making the book feel like a dance between the author and the reader. Indeed, the dancing motif, used as an extended metaphor throughout, provides moments of joy in a book that is deeply sad but necessary reading for anyone whose life has been touched by dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.

- Nicole Helget, Minnesota Book Award Author, TheEndoftheWild